October 20, 2008

Fall is here!

Fall is here!

I feel like Fall came without much warning. It was 75 degrees one day and then 55 degrees the next. Fall is such a romantic season. I can’t wait for the leaves to change color. Central Park will be so pretty.

But Fall also tends to bring loneliness. To combat this, I suggest the following:
12 Hugs (per day).

Virginia Satir, family therapist, through research has concluded:

“We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for
maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth.”

How many hugs did you receive today? When’s the last time you got 12 hugs in a day?

Better yet, when’s the last time you gave 12 hugs?

The thought of hugging 12 times might seem a bit daunting for some people. But when in doubt, just stretch out your hands, close your eyes and give the other person a tight squeeze.




















By Bomee Chu, Welcoming Team

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

does it have to be from 12 different people?? I don't that many people and even less who would hug me..

Debora said...

bomee. that pic of the bears hugging is sooo you :D

I'll hug you.. wait.. we hugged last night!

BoMee said...

lol Timmy.
good question.
It's ok to get from 1 person I think... hm.... Since you only need 4 hugs for "survival," I guess if you got 3 hugs from 4 different people then it would be 12. : )
Now the question is can you find 4 people??

There's Chant, Andrew, Sera, Debs, Dave, Grace, Gari ... wow that's seven already! lol

I don't think we are close enough to hug just yet... we'll see in year 2009. jk. LOL